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In a Rabbi's Minute

Travels with Good Turns

A friend of mine, a young man here in Richmond, told me the following story:

He was packing his bags in New Orleans for his trip home to Vancouver and debated whether to put his Tefillin in his carry on or in his checked luggage. The flight left at night and he would be home by morning. His itinerary called for a 2 hour layover in Houston and a quick connection to Vancouver. The trip was short enough that he wouldn't need the Tefilin on the flight or at the airport, but he decided to keep them with him in his carry-on bag.

After getting to the airport and checking his bags, he learned the flight was delayed because of bad weather in Houston. The flight didn't end up leaving for over 3 hours and he missed his connection home to Vancouver. He was booked on the next available flight but that wasn’t for a very long 14 hours. He stopped counting at about 12.

This was definitely an unexpected turn. He didn't bring much along in terms of food or entertainment, but he did have his Tefillin.

Actually, the unexpected turned good -- he got to know a lot of the nice people who worked at the stores in the airport. The best part was that while he was tefillintaking off his Tefillin after finishing his mitzvah, someone was calling out his name in Hebrew!! He didn't know too many people in Houston, and hardly anybody calls him by his Hebrew name. 

A fellow came up to him and excitedly told him, "I was on that same flight, and I too am going to Vancouver. Unfortunately I checked my Tefilin. Can I use yours"?

My Richmond friend was of course happy to do this mitzvah and glad to be able to help! But how did the fellow know his name?!? Then he remembered ...  his name was stitched onto his Tefilin bag that I had given him as a gift. 

So, the other fellow checked his Tefilin, but my friend didn't. He did end up needing them, but for something completely different. He was able to do a mitzvah and help someone else do a mitzvah as well. 

These seemingly random encounters sometimes make the trip better than we could ever imagine. Perhaps these encounters are not random after all. As we get ready to travel this summer, let’s remember the unexpected can give us the chance to do a good turn.

Something needed, something given, something lost or found – do you have a story of travel good turns?

Turn your travels into a meaningful experience. 

Breaking out of the Box

When Josh Kositsky walked into my classroom on the first day of Hebrew school several years ago, he was very nervous – not nervous-excited as so many new students are, just plain worried.

I soon realized the reason for his unease was that he was having trouble reading my lips as I spoke. You see, Josh is deaf.

When he was born, his parents were told he would never speak because of his “disability”. His potential was put in a box and given a label “You won’t speak”.

At some point in Josh’s life he chose not to accept that label he decided to break out of that box that was labelled, “You won’t speak” and he decided to speak. I don’t know what made him choose to move forward and learn to speak, but he did and he has never looked back.

13 years ago Josh celebrated his Bar Mitzvah at Chabad in a loud and proud voice. This was a day that not only did Josh prove to the world he was becoming a Jewish man, but he shouted to the world “I will not be put in a box, I will not be labelled”. That was a day I also learned the power of choice. 

And what fills my heart with joy and nachas is that every year since, Josh has come back to do more of the reading of his Torah portion. In fact, a couple of weeks ago, he chose to read more than ever before. Again Josh chose to push himself and accomplish just a bit more.

Josh doesn’t define himself by the things he was told he could not do or by the things others labelled him with. Josh defines himself with what he wants and on his terms and by his own choices. This is a gift that G-D has given all of us, and I wonder if we maybe do not use this gift enough.

Josh continues to outdo what others ever expect of him, but that is not what is ultimately important to Josh, Josh refuses to stay in a box with a label that is what drives Josh. I believe Josh will do many great things in his life, and I know what ever those great things are they will be Joshes choices.

Do you know someone who has broken out of a box and ripped of the label, exceeded expectations?  Have you ever amazed yourself with something you thought you couldn’t do, only to find out you could and much more?

Use the upcoming Shabbat to allow yourself to think outside of the box, it is a gift we all have and no one can take it away.

 

Shabbat Shalom to one and all

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